For women who are tired of translating themselves

Lead as yourself.
Not as the version they expected.

Life and leadership coaching for minority women navigating white corporate America — the politics, the performance reviews, and the quiet cost of staying in the room.

Format
1:1 · virtual
Focus
Career, voice, power
Next opening
This week
A professional woman of color in a tailored blazer, looking toward the camera with calm confidence.
Coaching that treats your identity as an asset — not a liability to manage.

Code-switching without losing yourself · Asking for the number · Finding sponsors, not just mentors · Staying whole while you rise

The work

Coaching for the rooms that were not built with you in mind.

This is not a pep talk. It is strategy, language, and a place to tell the truth — about the double bind, the “culture fit” conversation, and what it takes to stay ambitious without disappearing.

Complimentary

Discovery conversation

30 minutes to see if the fit is right. We name the season you are in and decide whether to work together.

  • No pitch. Honest assessment.
  • Clear next step, either way.

30 min · virtual

Focused

The raise & the room

A short intensive before a review, negotiation, or high-stakes meeting. We write the ask and rehearse the room.

  • Two sessions in 14 days
  • Talk track you can take in with you

2 × 50 min

Bookable calendar

Reserve a session. Pick a day, then a time.

Times shown in Eastern. This is a working mockup — choosing a slot opens a request form, not a live payment.

September 2026

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Step 1

Choose a date on the left

Open weekdays show 50-minute sessions. Discovery calls and intensives use the same calendar.

Field notes

Resources you can use before the next meeting.

Short, practical pieces — language for the hallway, the 1:1, and the review that always seems to arrive undercooked.

Scripts

When “you’re so articulate” is not a compliment

Three responses that keep you professional and do not swallow the slight.

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Negotiation

Ask for the number like you already belong

A structure for compensation conversations when the data is not on the table.

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Sponsorship

Mentors advise. Sponsors spend capital.

How to tell the difference — and how to ask for the latter without groveling.

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Reviews

The “needs more executive presence” loop

What that phrase often means, and how to force a more useful conversation.

Read & discuss in session →
Wellbeing

Leaving the meeting without taking it home

A closing practice for the days that cost more than they should.

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Watching room

Talks that tell the truth about the workplace.

A starter library — not homework. Use them to name what you have been carrying, then bring the live questions to coaching.

The danger of a single story

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie on who gets to narrate a life — and what happens when they get it wrong.

Color blind or color brave?

Mellody Hobson on why pretending not to see race is not the same as leading well.

Get comfortable with being uncomfortable

Luvvie Ajayi Jones on speaking when the room would rather you stay pleasant.

Get serious about inclusion

Janet Stovall on what companies owe people who are already doing the extra work.

From the work

What clients tend to say when they can finally exhale.

“I stopped translating every sentence in my head. That alone changed how I show up in the staff meeting.”

— Director of Product, fintech

“She did not ask me to be less angry. She asked me what the anger was protecting — then we wrote the ask.”

— VP, hospital system

“First time a coach understood both the politics and the hair-touching. I did not have to educate her first.”

— Senior counsel, Fortune 100
Portrait of Arlene Kelly, founder of In Our Own Voices.

The practice

Arlene Kelly, founder

I spent fifteen years in strategy rooms that praised my “polish” and then asked me to wait my turn. I learned the map. I also learned what it cost. This practice exists so you do not have to invent that map alone.

I coach Black, Latina, Asian, Indigenous, and other women of color who are high-performing and quietly exhausted — the ones who are “fine” in public and keeping a second set of books at home.

Sessions are virtual, confidential, and paced like a serious conversation, not a webinar. If you want a cheerleader, this is the wrong door. If you want a thinking partner who has sat in the chair, book the calendar.

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